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One of the best ways to get a narcissist to leave you alone (eventually) is to ignore them. For a random person, there are generally three interactions as follows: Narcissist’s response: He or she realizes that you aren’t worth their time (as you aren’t giving narcissistic supply) and ignores you right back.However, being ignored by a love interest or from someone they value is a different story altogether.If a child was abused in childhood or neglected in such a way that made him ashamed of whom he is, then he will try to cope with, or cover, that shame in whatever way is available to him or her.Some individuals will become socially withdrawn while others will choose a different defense mechanism such as narcissism.If your significant other has a new partner or stops returning your calls, then you need to face the obvious facts and realize the relationship is over.
Conquering a highly valued romantic partner is one of the best ways to attain this.there is no one standard for how a narcissist will react when ignored.Some will react violently, some will be furious, some will stalk the person, some won’t care at all, and some will never truly have a “love” interest that they put that much value on.“Love” may not necessarily be impossible for narcissists; they just view love differently than other people. Usually, they will act out or do anything to focus that person’s attention back to themselves. There is a difference in how they respond depending on whether you are a random person providing-or not providing- narcissistic supply, or a valued love interest. Theoretically, a true narcissist can’t tolerate being ignored…anyone.
Many narcissists cannot handle the hit to their ego when they are rejected this way; so much so, that narcissists are (paradoxically) prone to suicide with too much exposure to such perceived criticisms.